Lisa Wilkinson: media mogul and sublime find

Regular readers would gather by now that we love a feature on super successful lady things who are breaking the mould in the very finest of ways. Today’s subject, Lisa Wilkinson, fits that bill. I have to confess, until recently, I thought Lisa Wilkinson was just *wince* another attractive, smiley, tv host, without any other feathers in her cap. I am glad to admit I was supremely wrong! (Both about Lisa and to be thinking like that at all really… so very few of amongst us are one dimensional!)

The story so far… 

Lisa Wilkinson began her career in magazines, answering an ad to work at Dolly in her late teens. Within a couple of years, at the tender age of 21, Lisa became the youngest ever editor of the magazine. After four years, at twenty five (what were the rest of us doing at 25!?) she was moved to Cleo where she saw the magazine become the highest selling lifestyle magazine per capita IN THE WORLD. Not surprisingly, she went onto become International Editor-In-Chief. All this before she was thirty. Holy shiznits.

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Lisa in 1984, editor of Dolly

Lisa broke into tv in the late 1990’s when she started appearing on Beauty and The Beast. She got a gig hosting The Morning Shift during the 2000 Olympics and in 2005 began hosting Weekend Sunrise. In May 2007 she landed the role we know her best for, host of Today with Karl Stefanovic.

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Lisa’s also a Mumma to three teenage kids and married to columnist and ex-Wallaby (you know, football), Peter Fitzsimmons.

An extraordinary career (already!) by anyone standards, it was therefore little surprise that last year Lisa was invited to give the prestigious Andrew Olle Media Lecture; an event established in 1996 by the presenters and staff of 702 ABC Sydney in memory of their college Andrew Olle who died of a brain tumour.

This is when I sat up and really started paying attention to what Lisa be saying. 

Lisa’s speech got a fair chunk of media attention as she named the realities for women working in media, the unfortunate truth of women being judged on their appearance and then laid down an incredible call to action. Not surprisingly, she did so in a super eloquent, humble and funny way. I took 43 minutes and watched Lisa’s speech and feel very bloody glad for the privilege. If you want to do the same here it is:

If you don’t get to watch it, know this: Lisa’s amazing. Not only is it a powerful and completely engaging speech focusing on issues that really matter, Lisa delivers it with barely a glance at her notes. A gifted communicator, it effortlessly demonstrates why Lisa has enjoyed so much success in the world of media.

Meanwhile, some highlights from the transcript.

On her promotion to editor of Dolly at 21:

Now, it’s actually really hard for me to look at these pictures . . . and not just because of that yellow novelty jumper. It’s hard because I am immediately reminded of the sheer terror I felt at being handed such a huge responsibility as the editorship of Dolly at such a ludicrously young age . . . I also have to wonder, if in today’s image-conscious, camera-ready, Facebook-fabulous world, if that raw, still far-from-formed young woman with fear in her eyes and just a pure passion for working in magazines – would get that same break, today?

Because today’s media landscape, particularly for women, is one now so focused on the glossy and the glamorous it often eclipses and undermines everything else.

And it is everywhere.

I kid you not – even in preparing for tonight’s lecture, the most common question I was asked was not “What are you going to say?”, but “What are you going to wear?”

And when you’re a woman doing breakfast TV, you quickly learn the sad truth, that what you wear can sometimes generate a bigger reaction than even any political interview you ever do.

Lisa, calling it how it is.

Lisa, callin’ it how it is.

On women being judged on their appearance, and supporting other women:

Speaking of dirty laundry, as a woman in the media, it has long saddened me that while we delight in covering public issues of overt sexism – possibly the hottest topic in media over the last twelve months – the media itself can be every bit as guilty of treating women entirely differently to men.

And in terms of our audience, the cliché is so often true – it is women who can turn out to be a woman’s harshest critic.

After sharing several emails she’d received, demonstrating her very point, she continues:

And at the risk of overdoing it, I can’t resist delving into the mailbag one last time and sharing this email that popped up in the Today Show inbox one recent morning when Georgie Gardner and I were co-hosting the show:

Hello Producer,

I am totally fed up with the combination of Lisa and Georgie – they’re shocking together and its like listening to a chorus of cats.

Please replace Karl when he’s on “assignment” with a male partner for Georgie or Lisa. In fact, Lisa’s interviews are very biased and I think she should just stay at home with her husband and that stupid red turban he wears on his head. No doubt that’s where she gets her Tony Abbott interview questions from.


Joanne

You know what’s coming next . . . yep, I couldn’t help myself.

Dear Joanne,


Really sorry to hear you feel that way. What’s disappointing though is that you think a grown woman can’t come up with her own questions in an interview with the Opposition Leader, and that for some reason she needs to ask her husband to write them for her.

Then again, I note that you have sent this email from your husband’s email address, so maybe that is the way things are done in your house.


Sincerely,
Lisa.

Well, Joanne did write back to me. And what you may be surprised to learn is that Joanne told me she’s a former executive at Unifem, the organization charged with the care, protection and promotion of women.

She then mentioned that she was now running a new business and would I mind terribly, given I was a member of the sisterhood, giving it a plug on the Today Show.

And I’ve been receiving press releases from her ever since.

I despaired: how could a woman whose job it once was to change the culture of discrimination of women, feel OK being so anti-women? Was it the semi-anonymous nature of flicking off an email to someone she’d never met that somehow, in her mind, made it OK? And why are women so often the targets of vitriol? And why in so many areas of Australian life, are the rules of engagement still so different for women?

I despair that so many young girls are growing up, held hostage via social media to the views others have of them, long before they even know who they are themselves.

And, as a former magazine editor, allow me to speak on something I feel most passionately of all: I TRULY despair, every time Fashion Week rolls around and another parade of tragically skinny young women make their way down the catwalk. Every year! The designers blame the agents, the agents insist the girls are healthy, while the fashion editors hand the models yet another size 6 garment to wear in photos shoots because, and I’m quoting fashion editors here: it’s the only size the designer samples come in! Meanwhile, former Vogue editor Kirstie Clements admits that she’s seen models eat tissues to suppress their appetites so they can stay skinny enough to fit the clothes they’re required to wear.

But I say no more excuses! No more pointing the finger at others as the cause of the problem. We need a simple rule, a compact: we the editors of the women’s magazines of Australia feel that our duty is to present healthy images to the young women of Australia, and this far outweighs any other consideration. Therefore, we will not display in our magazines, clothes that arrive in a size 6!

If not our generation, then whose? If not now, then when?

Because so many young Australian girls are struggling. And this barrage of impossible, unattainable images is a big part of why.

Before she wrapped up, ever-gracious Lisa went on to pay tribute to many of her incredible female colleagues who had the privilege of being in the room to hear her speech. She received a lengthy standing ovation, some members of the audience in tears. Smashed it, Lisa!

Lisa, you are brave, humble, funny and obviously smart as a whip – you’re a sublime find! Thanks for using this incredibly unique opportunity to call it as you see it. Few have the perspective and experience you’ve had, your words carry enormous weight, we can only hope your call to action is heard.

♥ AS

What do you think of Lisa’s speech? 

J-Law in all her glory!

In our continual celebration of super celebrities who are awesome for being more than just gorgeous to look at (click here to read about our first lady legend, Tina Fey), we’ve got some Jennifer Lawrence to put a smile on your dial this Wednesday!

J-Law is the girl in hollywood who needs no introduction. She swept the awards seasons last year with her stellar performance in Silver Linings Playbook and won our hearts along the way with her hilarious antics, unpredictable behaviour and love of FOOD. Unapologetically herself and seemingly unaffected by her super-stardom, don’t mistake this 23-year-old’s humility for lack of intelligence. She graduated high school two years ahead of schedule with a 3.9 average (out of 4, very bloody good!) and convinced her parents to take her to New York to persue an acting career.

Always likely to put a smile on your face, enjoy some J-Law at her best!

GIFin’ it: 

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Quotable: 

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Fan of a photobomb!

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And a puller of funny faces:

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We heart you J-Law!

♥AS

What’s your favourite J-Law moment or quote? 

A Sublime Find for Womankind

It’s International Women’s Day on March 8 and also time for a little confession, sublime seekers: I am a feminist! *Cringe*, right? There’s a stigma about the word that makes you think I’m likely to a) burn my bra b) go picket for equal pay or c) become a fierce man-hater. But I’m not going to do anything of those things… I think my bras are awesome (and expensive… err), I’m paid pretty well for what I do (*gasp*) and I like boys so much I married one.

Jamila Rizvi of Mamamia wrote an article in 2012 that really got me thinking about the word ‘feminist’. I’m a feminist because I believe in equality. I also believe things are pretty bloody good for women in Australia. I believe that women do not always have the same opportunities that men enjoy in many of our workplaces. And I believe it’s not men’s ‘fault’. Nor is it women’s.

I share this view with Sheryl Sandberg, the Chief Operating Office of Facebook and the author of the book ‘Lean In: Women, Work and the Will to Lead’. I read Lean In in the middle of last year and was surprised by the profound affect it had on me… so much so that I’m calling it a Sublime Find!

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What’s this book all about?

Sheryl does several things in the book. She talks about the gap between men and women at work and she explains why the gap is there (after reading the book I studied gender diversity as part of my Master’s degree and was convinced of Sheryl’s genius summation of the issues around gender equality). She talks about women and likeability as well as women’s relationship with other women in the workplace (including this little gem of a quote; “There is a special place in hell for women who don’t help other women”). She takes it one step further though, and tells us what we can do on a personal level to start creating change. I’ll give you a hint: it involves letting your man-friend hang out the washing.

But the best thing that Sheryl does in Lean In is an incredible call-to-action, which starts in the very first chapter where she asks this question:

What would you do if you weren't afraid?

She says this question is posted on the walls of Facebook’s offices and goes on to share that her answer was write Lean In. I couldn’t help but ask myself the same question.  My own answer was confronting (because I AM afraid, Sheryl, I am positively scaredy-cat-ish) but ultimately led me down the path of starting this blog and I expect will carry me on towards several other new and exciting/terrifying experiences.

Sheryl talks about learning to ‘sit at the table’ and more actively insert yourself into the field of vision. She talks about asking for what you want, and how to do it. She talks about crying at work, about finding a way to be comfortably feminine in a male-dominated field and about being realistic about balancing work and family. She advises ‘don’t leave before you leave’ by mentally veering away from professional experiences for reasons outside of work and she talks about the importance of leaning in to opportunity.

And this is the bit of the book that resonated most with me. I believe wholeheartedly in being actively involved in all parts of life, not a bystander. I think life can be richer, more interesting and ultimately more rewarding when you take control of a situation rather than letting it happen to you. I think you stand to achieve more when you take time to consider what you want, then make it happen. I don’t think this call to action is just for women who work, I think it’s for all women, all people. Lean in to your life. It is simply too short to have it pass you by.

I want to Lean In! Where can I get the book?

You’ll find it at all major book retailers (online or instore), you should pick up a copy for around $30. I bought my copy on the kindle e-store to read on my iPad for just under $10. After reading the book, I bought 4 copies for the Glamazons (my closest girlyfriends), I know I’ll share it with others too (boys and girls) and of course, sublime-seekers, I want to make sure you’re all over it a well!

At 200-odd pages, it’s not a long read and Sheryl’s style is engaging and easy to follow. Even if it’s not the sort of thing you’d usually read (especially if it’s not the sort of thing you’d usually read!) I’d recommend giving it a go. It might just change your life, like it did mine!

♥AS

Have you read Lean In? What would you do if you weren’t afraid? Tell us below! 

Some Tina Fey to get ya through the week!

Sublime seekers, for you: seven quirky quotes from Tina Fey to get you through to the end of the week(end)…. when we see her! On our TVs (more on this below)!

Tina Fey is a hilarious genius; super successful comedian and TV-maker, author, business-master, Mumma, and (not that it even matters) sexy to boot! In all her glory, Tina Fey:

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This time next week, Tina and fellow funny-lady-gal-pal (it’s a thing ok?), Amy Poehler (of Parks and Recreation fame) will front up for their encore performance as Best Golden Globe Hosts Ever. Wanna sneak peak?

Can’t wait! As if the frocks weren’t exciting enough!

*Snaps* TF, you are friggin’ awesome and a Sublime Find, every day of the week (this week in particular!).

♥AS

What’s your favourite Tina Fey moment? Tell us below!